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Having the skill is not the same as being able to access the skill

Having the skill is not the same as being able to access the skill

Noriko Abenojar
Published on: 30/09/2026

Sometimes kids know exactly what to do but still can't act on it. Learn why having a skill isn't the same as accessing it in the moment, and discover a simple reframe that helps you understand what's really getting in your child's way.

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Why Isn't My Child's Social Progress Sticking? Understanding the Social Growth & Mastery Cycle

Why Isn't My Child's Social Progress Sticking? Understanding the Social Growth & Mastery Cycle

Noriko Abenojar
Published on: 28/06/2026

Many parents wonder why their child can demonstrate a social skill one day but struggle to repeat it the next. Learn how the Social Growth and Mastery Cycle helps children build lasting social skills, how you can better support your child's progress.

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When Summer Builds Real-Life Skills

When Summer Builds Real-Life Skills

Noriko Abenojar
Published on: 02/04/2026

Transform summer break into a masterclass for life. Discover simple ways to build your child's independence, confidence, and executive function using real-world skills.

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Real-Life Tasks That Build Executive Functioning and Social Skills-Part 2 of 2

Real-Life Tasks That Build Executive Functioning and Social Skills-Part 2 of 2

Noriko Abenojar
Published on: 16/04/2025

Real-world chores build kids' planning and empathy. Engaging their frontal lobes in shared tasks minimizes negative peer interactions and fosters collaborative social growth.

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Real-Life Tasks That Build Executive Functioning and Social Skills-Part 1 of 2

Real-Life Tasks That Build Executive Functioning and Social Skills-Part 1 of 2

Noriko Abenojar
Published on: 14/04/2025

Everyday tasks like movie nights or grocery shopping build critical executive functioning. By guiding kids through budgeting and planning, parents naturally teach perspective-taking and emotional regulation.

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